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Perbincangan serius di dalam Facebook dengan seorang kawan yang rupa-rupanya selama ini membaca blog aku. Lantas aku menjadi malu.Tidaklah se"anonymous" mana aku ni.


Sesetengah orang patut belajar menerima pujian dengan ucapan "terima kasih",disertai sedikit senyuman.

Tidak perlu ditokok tambah dengan ayat-ayat yang konon-konon anda merendah diri,yang kadang kala agak memualkan seisi alam.

Certain people need to learn to just say 'thanks', smile fleetingly and blahh whenever someone extol them. 


Tak susah pun kan?

14 comments:

Weirdo said...

bukan susah pun cakap terima kasih.. doesnt cost a cent pon.. :) agreed wit ya.

hanaahmad said...

huhu. aku tak boleh la org puji. jadi malu dan keluar la ayat "bese-bese je". kang ckp lebih2 org ckp kita berlagak plak.

My Aisy said...

yup setuju...kekadang menyampah pun de gak...tau mmg tak ikhlas pun dia cakap...

afrohead said...

memang ada orang tak boleh sorok rasa seronok+bangga kena puji. haha

EZAN IDMA said...

haha i like that word!

Kap said...

aku suka ikhlas dipuji.
dan aku puji orang lain seikhlas hati.

aLepfugazi said...

It's hard when you're really that good. Trust me.

Been there, done that ;-)

mohdbinabu said...

saying 'tq' never that hard for me :)

aLepfugazi said...

Or it's just me, been fighting this so-called superiority. Ha ha ha!

mohdbinabu said...

I believe u look even superior if you take those compliments with a simple 'tq' and smile, with no inappropriate try of being humble as though you don't deserve the praise . And hey, are we arguing of who's more superior here?hahaha. If that so,I rest my case:-)

aLepfugazi said...

It's not about superiority or whatsoever, haha.

I believe honesty/sincerity can't be measured because it doesn't really matter how you took the compliment, by saying 'tq' and smile, or being humble as though you don't deserve the compliment. Sincerity still can't be measured in any way.

mohdbinabu said...

Hahaha..I don't think you see the point here. You're deviating instead.Ok ok..here my point.

Alep,I puji your blog is good, punchy and full of witty writings.

You on the other should take the compliment with "tq for the compliment", rather than saying "eh tak. You write better. I always try to be you. You inspired me a lot",which unknowingly can sound so annoying to certain people.

There's no such thing of measuring ones sincerity since I didn't mention anything about being sincere or not in the entry.

Be it a real sincere compliment or some kind a word of teasing,put it aside.Take the 'good' with a little 'tq'.

That's it. Simple.

And yes, you write good things on your blog. And I like it :)

aLepfugazi said...

Thanks for the compliment. See, mudahnya. Ha ha ha!

But by just saying thank you would be bloody boring. I don't know why. That's why I said, it's just me.

;-)

mohdbinabu said...

Life's easy,kid. Don't complicate it :)